Sunday, October 19, 2008

So that's it

He loves me after five hours and refuses to let me go by the time we are done with the night. He was all for making me see how we could love each other. Right.

His faults:

  • he doesn't respect my "no" (if you can't stop when I ask/tell you too then I can't trust you)
  • he's aggressive (first day meeting, you love me? want to get married? have children? what the hell?)
  • he thinks that all guys who befriend females are trying to have sex with them, and if not are gay (granted this may be true for some but definitely not all. he called my best friend of ten years, who is a male, gay--major fuck up)
  • he thinks very highly of himself and has no problem letting me know...over and over and over again (sometime you have to be still and let your light show. translation: stop telling me how good you are and just show me. I'm not a total bitch, I want you to be confident, just not full of yourself)
  • even though I ask for time to get used to a possible relationship between us he still wants to force on the physical affection. basically he was trying to have sex with me (in what I think he thought was a subtle way)
  • he wants to have children, correction: he wants me to have his children...enough said (maybe not if you not know me. basically, I don't)

These are the reasons that I was uncomfortable with our pending relationship. And he didn't end. Kept professing his love, and his wanting me to have his children. So I decided that this wouldn't work. I decided to not wait any longer but to phone him and let him know. However, when I tried to talk to him he doesn't want to listen. Just gives up. Yeah, never gonna let me know, my ass. I knew he was full of shit.

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