So there is a saying that if you don't like a part of your life than you should change it. Okay. Change what you don't like. Got it. I find that people are quick to offer that solution to others. It is a great solution. I definitely understand forcing a person who spends a lot of time complaining to refocus on their part in their suffering. I even get that a person should change what they don't like.
So you tell someone to fix the part of their life they don't like. What happens when the person in question responds with an "I don't know how?" What then? People, myself included, are quick to give general solutions. What happens when a person needs more specific instructions? Then we have nothing.
I feel that maybe before we go off giving advice to issues we know nothing about, maybe we should do some listening.
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